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Sunday, March 6, 2016

Week 36 (My Story)


Why do I write? That’s a very good question that I’m not certain that I have the answer to. Why am I writing this right now I believe is a better question? I am writing this right now because I felt a desire to. Desire is a pretty demanding emotion when it wants to be, it makes us do good things, like writing, and it can make us do very bad things if we so choose. I have always been an inquisitive person, one who wants to know more than what just lies on the surface. There are many layers to everything and it’s the underlying layers that create, cause, and make us do and say the things we do that I find interesting.

I try to remain objective about most things although I do have opinions and I do make judgements towards people and attitudes at times. I mostly keep my opinions to myself, not being one to want to stir the pot too much and create unnecessary attention to myself. I have enough problems dealing with my day to day existence then to be bothered about what other people think or have to say about my opinions.

Feelings are a big part of what I write about. Love is one of the feelings that interests me the most, having felt this emotion, and hopefully had it felt for me. The differences in the way that people express love is of interest to me as well, seeing how people react to different stimuli such as the words that I write intrigues me.

What are your thoughts right this moment as you read this? Do you see the words and think to yourself about how they relate to the way that you think, or do you see me typing away at the laptop putting my thoughts on paper? If you don’t know me or have never met me personally it would be hard to picture me unless you have a very vivid imagination, then I could be anybody and look like anyone that you choose. Hopefully I look very handsome to you with a well chiseled physique, and certain attributes that would make most people blush.

I read a quote this morning “I’m just an optimist disguised as a cynic”. Not sure if it relates to me, but it did catch my eye. Without optimism I would not have any desire, and without desire I would not do half the things that I do. The cynical part is obvious if you have read any of my work, although I try to hide my cynicism as well as my passion with subtleness. If anything I have been accused of being too subtle, and not forthright with my true feelings. It is not my style, although I toy with it occasionally, I prefer to make the reader think. What the hell is he talking about, and what is he really saying are the phrases that I want to hear from the minds of my readers. I love double meanings and hidden messages.

What my goal is and what I would like to achieve with my writing is the ability to write a story. I want to write a story about a person or place that describes the locale and the personalities of the inhabitants to the reader. A story that tells about the intricacies of daily life and how people interact with each other. This thought fascinates me, and drives me to continue. The problem is that I have limited time to devote to writing and a very short attention span, I get bored easily, and the need for new stimuli is very real for me. Thus the poems and short stories are the mainstay of my writing. I can paint a picture with words but cannot seem to tell the story at any length. I suppose there is a place for all types of writing, and one is not any better than the other, although from what I can tell poetry is not on the best sellers list too often.

I live in a quiet little neighborhood. About twenty to thirty homes consist of the entire community. It is a water community on a small peninsula tucked between the Chesapeake Bay and the mouth of the Potomac river. There are only a handful of full time residents, the most being seasonal vacationers who come down on the weekends to relax and get away from the pressures of city life. I enjoy the solitude and quiet when no one is here, although it does get lonely at times.

I have started taking walks in the morning and jogging occasionally if my body is up to it. My dog Ms. Virginia accompanies me and we enjoy our time together. The neighborhood consists of a one-mile loop perfectly flat and optimal for walking or jogging, flat and easily navigated. Most mornings I am visited by a few of the other dogs in the neighborhood who may join us as we make our rounds. Treats for everyone is my motto for the animals and they enjoy themselves as well as keeping me company. Being the introvert that I am it is safe to say that this suits me perfect, although I often think that a human companion would be nice once in a while.

The problem with human companions is that they have needs of their own. If their needs outweigh mine, I have a tendency to make their needs a priority over my own. I have this innate desire to mold myself into what the person I am with wants me to be instead of staying true to myself. I know this sounds insane and it probably is. The dogs don’t put any pressure on me, as long as I have treats is good enough for them, so here we are, miles from my nearest friend or family and just walking the neighborhood.

There are people here, and I have made some friends. If I need to talk with someone I can usually walk down to the marina at the end of the road and find someone there. Or during the warm months my neighbors come down and can be found hanging out in their yards or at home relaxing. There are different personalities here I suppose as anywhere that one lives, and I try to get along with everyone. There are times though when I go for days without seeing or talking with anyone except the dogs, they are my constant companions. Without them life would get very lonely.

Most nights, weather permitting, is spent sitting on the back deck relaxing until it’s time to go to bed which is pretty early since there’s not anything to do here and I pretty much quit watching TV. This is when a human companion would be nice to hang out with in front of the fire or just sit and watch the water, the moon, and the stars.

Days start pretty early sometimes at 3:00 AM since going to bed early leads to early rising. I like to get up with the sunrise and take a photograph over the water for a journal that I keep while I stay here. Some days I feed the dog and let her out and go back to bed and others I stay up and write or start work. Today is one of those writing days.

 

too be continued….







 



Robert
2016
 


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