What is the definition of love?
Webster's 1913 Dictionary defines it as:
1. a feeling of strong attachment induced by that which delights or commands admiration; preeminent kindness or devotion to another; affection; tenderness; as, the love of brothers and sisters. 2. especially, devoted attachment to, or tender or passionate affection for, one of the opposite sex. 3. Courtship;- chiefly in the phrase to make love, i.e., to court, to woo, to solicit union in marriage. 4 affection; kind feeling; friendship; strong liking or desire; fondness; good will; - opposed to hate; often with of and an object. 5. due gratitude and reverence to God. 6. the object of affection; - often employed in endearing address; as, he held his love in his arms; his greatest love was reading. 7. cupid the god of love; sometimes, Venus. 8. a thin silk stuff. 9. (Botany) a climbing species of clematis (clematis vitalba). 10. nothing; no points scored on one side; - used in counting score at tennis, etc. 11. sexual intercourse; - a euphemism.
50 years later:
Webster's New World Dictionary College Edition Copyright 1964 defines it as:
1. a strong affection for or attachment or devotion to a person or persons. 2. a strong liking for or interest in something: as, her
love of acting. 3. a strong usually passionate , affection for a person of the opposite sex. 4. the person who is the object of such an affection: sweetheart, lover. 5. sexual passion or its gratification. 6. [Latin], a) Cupid, or Eros, as the god of love, b) [Rare] Venus. 7. [ < phrase.
play for love, i.e., play for nothing], in
tennis, a score of zero. 8. in theology, a) Gods benevolent concern for mankind. b) man's devout attachment to God. c)the feeling of benevolence and brotherhood that people should have for each other.
Another 50 years later:
Merriam-Webster's Online Collegiate Dictionary Updated for 2014 defines it as:
1. a: (1) strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties love for a child. (2) attraction based on sexual desire, affection and tenderness felt by lovers. (3) affection based on admiration, benevolence, or common interests. b: an assurance of affection love. 2. warm attachment, enthusiasm, or devotion. 3. a: the object of attachment, devotion, or admiration love. b: (1) a beloved person: darling —often used as a term of endearment, (2) British —used as an informal term of address. 4. a: unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another: as (1): the fatherly concern of God for humankind. (2): brotherly concern for others. b: a person's adoration of God. 5. a god or personification of love. 6. an amorous episode: love affair. 7. the sexual embrace: copulation. 8. a score of zero (as in tennis). 9. capitalized Christian Science : god.
Not sure exactly what year "opposite sex" was taken out of the passionate affection of others thing, it was still there in the sixties, its gone now. By 1964 the soliciting union of marriage was out and replaced by a sweetheart or lover. Now love is an attraction based on sexual desire among other things including admiration, benevolence, and common interest. Which I suppose means marriage is replaced with warm attachment, enthusiasm, or devotion.
100 years ago love was a nice term for sexual intercourse I guess because the word f... was not in the dictionary, but in the sixties intercourse was out and love meant sexual gratification (two words defined as having sex and being satisfied), but the word f... was still not in the dictionary. Now love is a nice term for copulation which is a nice word for f......., and the word f... is in the dictionary with its origin akin to Dutch breeding cattle.
As far as gods go Cupid and Venus are out and replaced by a god or personification of love. The word god is in, but only after an amorous episode, copulation, and a score of zero, not touching that one. Cupid the god of desire and passion went around shooting people with love arrows, and Venus, the mother of Cupid, was the god of spring, bloom, and beauty. Where are the love gods when we need them.
So what is love?
I think I'll stick to 1. strong affection for another. 2. strong interest in something. 3. concern for others. 4. the tennis definition of a score of zero. 5. sex (i.e. make a little love, do a little dance, get down tonight)
Love on brothers and sisters!
Robert
2014